Things you should know before dating a Hungarian

Dating someone who comes from a different culture can be tough and confusing at times. Especially if you are dating a Hungarian. The Hungarian culture is very unique, not to mention the language. Here’s all you need to know before dating a Hungarian. Although, some of these things are heavily generalised.

Good cooks

Most tourists would agree that Hungarian cuisine is one of the best ones in the world. By dating a Hungarian, you could eat all of these delicious dishes all the time. Just imagine… Although, if you do not like paprika, maybe you should keep that a secret. In Hungary, paprika goes into everything. Stuffed cabbage, salami, Goulash, stew, everything. If you are planning to date a Hungarian, you should keep in mind that food is of key importance in Hungarian culture. Sunday lunch is a sacred weekly tradition in most households. On Sunday lunches, people usually eat meat soup and Schnitzel as the main course. Traditional desserts are very popular as well.

Strict fathers

Most Eastern European cultures share the stereotype of the strict and overly protective father. After all, fathers want the best for their daughters. However, most dads will not investigate your annual income, future plans, and such right away. When meeting the parents for the first time, make sure to accept pálinka. Pálinka is the national spirit of Hungary. It is considered rather rude to refuse a shot of pálinka. Hungarians often celebrate big events, birthdays, weddings, etc. with pálinka, so you should be prepared for that. Elderly Hungarians even believe that this alcoholic drink cures headaches and stomachaches.

In addition, Hungarian are great hosts. The parents will probably try to make you as comfortable as possible each time you visit. By cooking your favourite meal, making delicious desserts, and of course, deep-cleaning the whole house beforehand to make a good impression.

Never satisfied

Some foreigners tend to think that Hungarians are never satisfied or happy. It is because they show less feelings usually, but they do feel satisfaction and happiness deep inside. However, many Hungarians are pessimistic. According to historians, Hungarian history was so dark and full of tragic happenings that Hungarians expect the worst at all times. To keep the spirits up, Hungarians like to crack a joke. In general, people in Hungary have a good sense of humour.

Hard to come up with date ideas

If you do not speak Hungarian, it might be hard to come up with great date ideas. Even if you are planning a classic cinema date, most films are in Hungarian. However, you can check out our suggestions for English cinemas in Budapest HERE. If you are looking for further date ideas, you should read our recommendations HERE.

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